{"id":169,"date":"2012-06-21T10:06:52","date_gmt":"2012-06-21T10:06:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/meditations.kafkasworld.com\/dir\/?p=169"},"modified":"2012-06-21T10:06:52","modified_gmt":"2012-06-21T10:06:52","slug":"why-we-dont-deserve-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sheaoakley.com\/index.php\/2012\/06\/21\/why-we-dont-deserve-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Why We Don\u2019t \u201cDeserve It\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n
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Why We Don\u2019t \u201cDeserve It\u201d
\nCopyright 2011 by Shea Oakley
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People often talk about the prospect of those whom they love or respect receiving something good in their lives in terms of them \u201cdeserving it\u201d. This is a regular part of the congratulatory vernacular of most people today, including many Christians. Unfortunately it does not reflect spiritual truth. Strictly speaking, none who have walked the Earth since Adam and Eve\u2019s fall \u201cdeserve\u201d anything good happening to them. The idea that people do owes more to Post-Modern hyper-individualism and the pride that such individualism too often engenders. In a secular culture where \u201cself-esteem\u201d is most often derived from man rather than God the use of such phraseology is to be expected and should not be particularly shocking. What is a bit surprising is how often believers jump on the \u201che\/she\/they deserve it\u201d bandwagon when a blessing from God is bestowed on someone or some group.<\/p>\n

Devout and biblically-informed Christians in earlier eras of the Church generally had no such illusions about blessings. Rather than exclaiming how deserving the recipient was they were far more apt to praise God for His mercy and grace when something good happened to that recipient. Christians of the past knew that no sinner, even a redeemed one, had earned blessing in and of themselves. They recognized that in a Christian context the very idea was oxymoronic. So should we.<\/p>\n

I understand that telling someone whom we regard highly that they \u201cdeserve\u201d a good job or spouse or a nice home comes very naturally to us and is our way of expressing personal regard and respect. But it does not do the recipient any good. It certainly does not help them to understand the grace of God and it may well hinder such an understanding. How can they grasp the idea of \u201cunmerited favor\u201d when we are telling them that such favor is merited by their actions? In our seemingly innocent good intentions we are only giving them reason for pride and an accompanying sense of entitlement.<\/p>\n

You might object that when someone does a good job they at least deserve accolades for doing it. This may be true but keep this in mind: no one has the power to do good in and of themselves, no one. Every good thing we do in this life is made possible by God. Such things may come through common grace in the case of unbelievers or sanctifying grace in the case of Christians but, either way, they come from God not us.<\/p>\n

This does not mean, however, that we have license to go around telling every blessed soul that they are rotten sinners who do not deserve anything from God but punishment or chastisement. I am not trying to make a case for making someone feel rotten when something nice happens to them. I am simply saying that it is untrue to say that anyone is intrinsically deserving of good. When that nice thing happens we would do better to say something like \u201cPraise God for blessing you with that job, wife or home. I\u2019m so happy that He did this thing for you because I love you and it is wonderful to see how much He loves you too.\u201d<\/p>\n

To shift from \u201cI\u2019m happy for you, you deserve it\u201d to \u201cI\u2019m happy for you, praise God for His love\u201d may not come easily for those of us who have taken on the colloquialisms of the world without even being consciously aware of it. Indeed I must confess that I have been among those who have said \u201cyou deserve it\u201d, but I say it less and less as time goes on and I get a better idea of how little good I deserve and how much good I am given by God anyway.<\/p>\n

Part of the sanctification of Post-Modern, Western Christians is a gradual rejection of things that Post-Modern, Western culture tells us are justified in favor of things the Justifier would have us adopt as His children. Giving up the phrase \u201cyou deserve it\u201d may not seem like a very important part of that process, and it may not be, but it is a part of it nonetheless.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Why We Don\u2019t \u201cDeserve It\u201d Copyright 2011 by Shea Oakley All rights reserved People often talk about the prospect of those whom they love or respect receiving something good in their lives in terms of them \u201cdeserving it\u201d. This is a regular part of the congratulatory vernacular of most people today, including many Christians. Unfortunately… <\/p>\n

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